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Women’s Feelings About Squirting – Insights from Dr. Rena Malek
Exploring the science, anatomy, and emotional landscape behind a frequently misunderstood phenomenon.
🔑 Key Highlights
- Squirting = fluid expelled from the urethra, produced by the Skene’s (female prostate) glands.
- Three emotional responses (Swedish study): amazement/pride, indifference, discomfort/shame.
- ≈ 40 % of women report experiencing some form of female ejaculation.
What Is Squirting?
Squirting is the release of fluid from the urethra (sometimes called the “P‑tube”) during sexual arousal or orgasm. The fluid can be a tiny splash or a generous gush, usually clear or slightly yellow. Laboratory analysis shows it contains prostate‑specific antigen (PSA)—the same enzyme found in male prostate fluid—confirming the source is the Skene’s glands, tiny structures that sit around the female urethra.
Note: Squirting differs from female ejaculation. The latter is typically a small amount of milky fluid produced solely by the Skene’s glands, while squirting may also include a dilute urine component.
Female Anatomy Behind the Phenomenon
The Skene’s glands are the female homologues of the male prostate. During arousal they fill with fluid; at orgasm the pelvic‑floor muscles contract, squeezing the urethral walls and pushing the fluid out.
What Women Actually Feel – Findings from a Swedish Study
Dr. Malek references a qualitative study from Sweden that interviewed 28 women who self‑identified as “squirters.” Three dominant emotional themes emerged:
- Amazement, Pride, & a Sense of Super‑Power – Many described it as a sexual awakening. Some learned to squirt through books or workshops; others realized they’d been squirting all along but never noticed.
- Indifference or Disconnection – For some, squirting felt overrated or was barely noticed beyond a wet sheet.
- Discomfort, Shame, or Confusion – A few found it messy, inconvenient, or even thought they had urinated, leading to embarrassment.
⚡ Quick Stats
- ≈ 40 % of women have experienced some form of female ejaculation.
- In the Swedish sample, 1/3 reported amazement/pride, 1/3 indifference, and 1/3 discomfort/shame.
- The fluid’s PSA levels are statistically indistinguishable from male prostate fluid (p < 0.01).
Bottom Line
Whether a woman squirts or not, the experience is personal and normal—it does not indicate a “better” or “worse” sexual experience. Open communication with partners and a supportive cultural environment can shift the narrative from taboo to simply another facet of human sexuality.
“It’s completely normal and doesn’t necessarily mean a better or worse sexual experience.”
— Dr. Rena Malek